feat: new relation sync-metadata, twenty-orm, create/update (#10217)

Fix
https://github.com/twentyhq/core-team-issues/issues/330#issue-2827026606
and
https://github.com/twentyhq/core-team-issues/issues/327#issue-2827001814

What this PR does when `isNewRelationEnabled` is set to `true`:
- [x] Drop the creation of the  foreign key as a `FieldMetadata`
- [x] Stop creating `RelationMetadata`
- [x] Properly fill `FieldMetadata` of type `RELATION` during the sync
command
- [x] Use new relation settings in TwentyORM
- [x] Properly create `FieldMetadata` relations when we create a new
object
- [x] Handle `database:reset` with new relations

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Co-authored-by: Charles Bochet <charles@twenty.com>
Co-authored-by: Charles Bochet <charlesBochet@users.noreply.github.com>

packages/twenty-server/src/engine/twenty-orm/utils/format-data.util.ts

@@ -7,6 +7,7 @@ import { compositeTypeDefinitions } from 'src/engine/metadata-modules/field-meta
 import { isCompositeFieldMetadataType } from 'src/engine/metadata-modules/field-metadata/utils/is-composite-field-metadata-type.util';
 import { ObjectMetadataItemWithFieldMaps } from 'src/engine/metadata-modules/types/object-metadata-item-with-field-maps';
 import { CompositeFieldMetadataType } from 'src/engine/metadata-modules/workspace-migration/factories/composite-column-action.factory';
+import { isFieldMetadataInterfaceOfType } from 'src/engine/utils/is-field-metadata-of-type.util';
 
 export function formatData<T>(
   data: T,
@@ -23,9 +24,28 @@ export function formatData<T>(
   }
 
   const newData: Record<string, any> = {};
+  const fieldMetadataByJoinColumnName =
+    objectMetadataItemWithFieldMaps.fields.reduce((acc, fieldMetadata) => {
+      if (
+        isFieldMetadataInterfaceOfType(
+          fieldMetadata,
+          FieldMetadataType.RELATION,
+        )
+      ) {
+        const joinColumnName = fieldMetadata.settings?.joinColumnName;
+
+        if (joinColumnName) {
+          acc.set(joinColumnName, fieldMetadata);
+        }
+      }
+
+      return acc;
+    }, new Map<string, FieldMetadataInterface>());
 
   for (const [key, value] of Object.entries(data)) {
-    const fieldMetadata = objectMetadataItemWithFieldMaps.fieldsByName[key];
+    const fieldMetadata =
+      objectMetadataItemWithFieldMaps.fieldsByName[key] ||
+      fieldMetadataByJoinColumnName.get(key);
 
     if (!fieldMetadata) {
       throw new Error(