Add TwentyORM query read timeout exception (#13603)

In this PR:
- adding a try / catch around all ORM internal methods save, insert,
upsert, findOne, ...
- leveraging this error to prevent messageChannels to get FAILED
- optimizing messaging BATCH_SIZE and THROTTLE threshold according to
local tests
- 

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packages/twenty-server/src/modules/messaging/message-import-manager/constants/messaging-throttle-max-attempts.ts

@@ -1 +1 @@
-export const MESSAGING_THROTTLE_MAX_ATTEMPTS = 4;
+export const MESSAGING_THROTTLE_MAX_ATTEMPTS = 5;

packages/twenty-server/src/modules/messaging/message-import-manager/drivers/gmail/constants/messaging-gmail-users-messages-get-batch-size.constant.ts

@@ -1 +1 @@
-export const MESSAGING_GMAIL_USERS_MESSAGES_GET_BATCH_SIZE = 200;
+export const MESSAGING_GMAIL_USERS_MESSAGES_GET_BATCH_SIZE = 400;

packages/twenty-server/src/modules/messaging/message-import-manager/services/messaging-import-exception-handler.service.ts

@@ -3,6 +3,10 @@ import { Injectable } from '@nestjs/common';
 import { isDefined } from 'class-validator';
 
 import { ExceptionHandlerService } from 'src/engine/core-modules/exception-handler/exception-handler.service';
+import {
+  TwentyORMException,
+  TwentyORMExceptionCode,
+} from 'src/engine/twenty-orm/exceptions/twenty-orm.exception';
 import { TwentyORMManager } from 'src/engine/twenty-orm/twenty-orm.manager';
 import { MessageChannelSyncStatusService } from 'src/modules/messaging/common/services/message-channel-sync-status.service';
 import {
@@ -36,7 +40,7 @@ export class MessageImportExceptionHandlerService {
   ) {}
 
   public async handleDriverException(
-    exception: MessageImportDriverException | Error,
+    exception: MessageImportDriverException | Error | TwentyORMException,
     syncStep: MessageImportSyncStep,
     messageChannel: Pick<
       MessageChannelWorkspaceEntity,
@@ -53,6 +57,7 @@ export class MessageImportExceptionHandlerService {
             workspaceId,
           );
           break;
+        case TwentyORMExceptionCode.QUERY_READ_TIMEOUT:
         case MessageImportDriverExceptionCode.TEMPORARY_ERROR:
         case MessageNetworkExceptionCode.ECONNABORTED:
         case MessageNetworkExceptionCode.ENOTFOUND:
@@ -102,7 +107,7 @@ export class MessageImportExceptionHandlerService {
       'id' | 'throttleFailureCount'
     >,
     workspaceId: string,
-    exception: MessageImportDriverException,
+    exception: { message: string },
   ): Promise<void> {
     if (
       messageChannel.throttleFailureCount >= MESSAGING_THROTTLE_MAX_ATTEMPTS