Add TwentyORM query read timeout exception (#13603)

In this PR:
- adding a try / catch around all ORM internal methods save, insert,
upsert, findOne, ...
- leveraging this error to prevent messageChannels to get FAILED
- optimizing messaging BATCH_SIZE and THROTTLE threshold according to
local tests
- 

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packages/twenty-server/src/modules/connected-account/refresh-tokens-manager/services/connected-account-refresh-tokens.service.ts

@@ -118,7 +118,10 @@ export class ConnectedAccountRefreshTokensService {
         );
       }
 
-      this.logger.log(error);
+      this.logger.log(
+        `Error while refreshing tokens on connected account ${connectedAccount.id.slice(0, 7)} in workspace ${workspaceId.slice(0, 7)}`,
+        error,
+      );
       throw new ConnectedAccountRefreshAccessTokenException(
         `Error refreshing tokens for connected account ${connectedAccount.id.slice(0, 7)} in workspace ${workspaceId.slice(0, 7)}: ${error.message} ${error?.response?.data?.error_description}`,
         ConnectedAccountRefreshAccessTokenExceptionCode.REFRESH_ACCESS_TOKEN_FAILED,