[permissions] Fix delete and soft-delete + enable fieldPermissions in devSeeds (#13646)

In this PR
1. Fix delete and soft-delete repository methods for repositories where
permission checks are NOT bypassed: they need to have a selection of
columns to return by default. To match what we did for insert I set it
to `'*'` by default. But I feel this may be bug prone as developers will
not necessarily think to fill the right values in. Maybe we should
change the api to use selectable fields by default. @charlesBochet
2. Add field permission seeds and enable field permission feature flag
in dev

packages/twenty-server/src/engine/twenty-orm/repository/permissions.utils.ts

@@ -332,7 +332,7 @@ const getSelectedColumnsFromExpressionMap = ({
       operationType,
     )
   ) {
-    if (isEmpty(expressionMap.returning)) {
+    if (!isDefined(expressionMap.returning)) {
       throw new InternalServerError(
         'Returning columns are not set for update query',
       );