[permissions] Fix delete and soft-delete + enable fieldPermissions in devSeeds (#13646)

In this PR
1. Fix delete and soft-delete repository methods for repositories where
permission checks are NOT bypassed: they need to have a selection of
columns to return by default. To match what we did for insert I set it
to `'*'` by default. But I feel this may be bug prone as developers will
not necessarily think to fill the right values in. Maybe we should
change the api to use selectable fields by default. @charlesBochet
2. Add field permission seeds and enable field permission feature flag
in dev

packages/twenty-server/src/engine/api/rest/core/handlers/rest-api-delete-one.handler.ts

@@ -29,7 +29,9 @@ export class RestApiDeleteOneHandler extends RestApiBaseHandler {
       select: selectOptions,
     });
 
-    await repository.delete(recordId);
+    const columnsToReturnForDelete: string[] = [];
+
+    await repository.delete(recordId, undefined, columnsToReturnForDelete);
 
     return this.formatResult({
       operation: 'delete',